hi everyone! we can't believe how quickly our engagement has flown by and are so excited to finally
celebrate Sam's official signing to Team Connelly.

if you have any questions, please reach out to John or Sam. If you reach out to John, he will likely direct you to Sam :)

you can reach Sam at selskys1@gmail.com

Catholic Ceremony

Friday, June 16, 2023

This event is open to anyone who'd like to join us in a traditional catholic ceremony. This church is where several generations of John's family have been married. We're excited to keep this tradition alive!

Address: 95 Main St, Stonington CT

Welcome Party

Friday, June 16, 2023

Dinner, Drinks, Live Music and Games

Immediately following the church ceremony. Please arrange transportation from the church to the Connelly household if you're attending church. Everyone is welcome to attend this event!

This lawn has been home to several celebrations in John's family and we're excited to welcome everyone 'home' for our wedding weekend.

Attire: Casual

Address: 499 Stonington Rd

The Wedding

Saturday, June 17th, 2023


This location will mark the start of a new tradition for us as this will be the start of a new chapter in our lives.

Dinner will be outside on the lawn (ladies, you know what this means in terms of shoes) followed by dancing in the ballroom.

Attire: While we hope you keep your sneakers at home, we understand why you might feel Nike AirMax's are appropriate.
Our desire is for you to be comfortable and chic. We think this means Semi-Formal.
Gentlemen, no need for a coat.
Ladies, do your thing.

ocean house

We have secured a small room block at
The Ocean House.

Please call them directly to gain access. Just mention the Selsky/Connelly Wedding and they will give you additional details.

Ocean House phone number: (855) 678-0364

shelter harbor inn

We have blocked every room at Shelter Harbor.
They only have 22 rooms available, so please book soon if you'd like access to this property!

Please call them directly to gain access. Just mention the Selsky/Connelly Wedding and they will give you additional details.

We will have designated transportation from Shelter Harbor directly to the Ocean House before the ceremony and after the reception.

Shelter Harbor Inn phone number: (401) 322-8883

other possible options

the below options did not offer a room block but are close in proximity to The Ocean House


Click the link below to let us know your plans! Let us know by May 6th if possible.

our registry

your attendance is the best gift we could imagine, if you're feeling extra generous feel free to check out our registry